Wednesday, August 1, 2012

It's not a Twilight post

So a few weeks past since the "thing" with Kristen Steward and Robert Pattinson happend... and yeah they broke up. But I'm not writing this post to say "Oh, they were a nice couple. They were my favorite, what a pitty, they should be together again" No, that's not what I want to say. This is not a post about what a cute couple they were.
This is a post to find out about how you feel because I'm really curious about how people from all around the world(+difference in age, gender, country) think about this. 
Yes, Kristen is the one who made this big mistake- she cheated. And now she's the one who gets all the blame (and I think she deserves it.) But what about the director (sorry,forgot his name)? Why doesn't he get as much blame as Kristen does? He cheated as well. He did the same wrong thing + he is/was a married man with two children. Is that because he didn't got much attention as the "famous Edward-Bella couple"?

Furthermore, to look a little bit broader about cheating. Do you think one cheats because he does not like his partner anymore or maybe they are bored(?) and feel the need of experiencing something new, something risky? Might there be cases where one partner cheated because the other partner did something wrong?
And lets say one couple broke up (might be because of cheating or not) Is it OK for the guy/girl to date the guy/girls friend?
And if the ex is dating your friend, makes that your ex become the bad guy or your friends as well? Or is nobody the bad guy in this scenario? Or depends this on the situation?
So many (similar questions) to one topic! I talked about this with my bf and we got our own opinions. But after having this conversation, it made me curious how other people feel about these things. Anyways, we came to the conclusion that cheating is bad!
P.S: I sometimes...or actually often recognize how people comment what a pretty picture I have posted (and if we could follow each other.) And I'm thankful for this because I don't just post any picture randomly but I would be glad if they made at least an effort to read all that stuff that I have wrote. I hope this does not happen on this post because I'm really curious how you feel about this!


Well... said...

Man, a lot to think about here! I'm kind of sad Kristen screwed things up since I liked them as a couple, but I also agree that the director also deserves more attention too! He was married! Ugh, I don't know why people cheat, it's such a sad thing to do.

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Jessica said...

yes the director deserves equal blame, and not that it is ever right to cheat but sometimes that points to the relationship kind of already being over in a way. although i truly believe you should break up with someone before it ever gets to that point!!


Allie said...

I thought the same thing! I think it's terrible that she cheated, but why is she the only bad guy?? Why isn't the director being ripped apart in the media as well....I mean, he had two kids and a wife! Sometimes, girls have it the hardest. A guy cheats and it's no big's normal. A girl cheats and it's the end of the world.

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Anđela Vitorović said...

They were nice couple! :)

Sanzibell said...

i love this pictures ♥

Pop Champagne said...

the fault is both of them 50-50. unfortunately kristen stewart got the slack, perhaps it's because she spoke out about it first or because she's a woman and there is a double standard. but I do believe it's 50-50!

Psycho Cat said... cheat cause you don't love anymore, you know, trully love, that's what I think :)

Erica said...

I must be living under a rock, because I didn't know that they broke up or that she cheated. I think there are as many reasons why people cheat as there are people in the world. Doesn't make it right, but it happens.

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Sára said...

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Erin said...

Cheating is bad-definitely. I think the director is at just as big of a fault, if not more bc he is married with children. That's not to say Kristen's is a more forgivable "cheat" so-to-speak because she was just dating Rob, but it seems to be a bigger deal when you're married with children. In addition, if your friend is going to date your ex, knowing full-well that you did, do, and will always probably have some sort of feelings for that person, they are probably not a friend worth keeping.


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Jade Purple Brown said...

I feel like situations like this have happen to almost everyone. Bring in the public eye just makes everything more dramatic.

Sabrilett said...

I think Kristen got the worst part cause she's like more famous than the director but they're both guilty and I even think it was worst on the guy's side cause he already has a family. I didn't actually liked them as a couple or at all but is impossible not to read about that kind of stuff. I don't know why people cheat, I guess they get bored of their couples but they don't want to end the relationship, sometimes to get back at something their partner did and sometimes some people just can't commit but in any case I don't think is right or justifiable. When it comes to ex's and friends I think it depends on how the person feels about her/his friends dating the ex, some don't care but when they do, both the ex and friend are equally guilty... Oh well, that's how I see it

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tuwentytri said...

I am really sad about this incident. They are a really great couple I think they actually made each other a much better person than they were before.
I am also confused how Kristen would cheat on Rob maybe because she was so scared of being committed too much although she truly loves him. We all know that Kristen has some self issues about this kind of things. But either way I hope they could fix :)

sammycx said...

I can't believe what happened :( so horrible!

criscrascrus said...

yeah it was a music festival! it was great :) nice photoshoot, xx

Kristen Lam said...

Girls always get the blame!


Theadorabletwo said...

First of all shame on her to sleep with a married man. What did she see? Did she think because he is the director she will get better parts? And he said it was a mistake and that he loves his wife.. I think he should have never ever.. Men don't think with their hearts only with their **** haha sorry but i got really upset when i heard this in the news

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True said...

I must say the 1st picture is the bomb!